Nama namasmaran and total stress management new
It is true that NAMASMARAN does not ensure any concrete material gains as such. But it actually “converts” us from our “seeker” status into a “master” status! We become masters of our petty selves! In fact this is the hallmark of progress in any culture; anywhere in the world.
Published on: Mar 3, 2016
Transcripts - Nama namasmaran and total stress management new
SHRI LAXMINARAYAN WALAVAL, SINDHUDURG, MAHARASHTRA,
MY PARENTS DR. JANARDAN NARAYAN KASHALIKAR
SOU RUKMINI JANARDAN KASHALIKAR
Sadguru Shri Brahmachaitanya Maharaj Gondavalekar
Gondavale, Dist Satara, Maharashtra, India
GURUH SAKSHAT PARABRAHMA
TASMAISHRI GURAVE NAMAH
I salute my Guru, who is Brahma, Vishnu and Mahesh called Gunamaya i.e.
the penultimate truth; and the Parabrahma; i.e. the ultimate truth.
(Jap, Jaap, Jikra, Sumiran, Simaran; i.e. remembering God or True Self)
Total Stress Management
(Total Well Being, Holistic Renaissance, Superliving, Holistic Health Etc)
A Heart to Heart Dialogue
Dr. Shriniwas Janardan Kashalikar
MBBS (POONA), MD (BOM), FICG (BOM), FFFBMS (USA), D Sc (OIUCM-COLOMBO)
Professor and Head
Department of Physiology
Hind Institute of Medical Sciences
Safedabad (UP); India
Indeed; this is a heart to heart dialogue! It depicts the absorbing story of a
progressive inner blossoming; from the initial stage; of struggling to the stage of
On page 7, the dialogue begins with a question commonly faced by us. This is the
beginning of conscious process of stress management! Before this; there is a stage
of ignorance and darkness; devoid of any questions. It is speechless.
On pages 8 to 9, there is a focus on importance of the practice of
NAMASMARAN in stress.
On page 10, we find a discussion on whether the day to day problems are real or
God or true self is real.
On pages 11to13, there is a narration of the early perceptions of the teacher about
stress, NAMASMARAN and Total Stress Management; and a depiction of his
ideas about charity.
On pages 14 to17, The teacher’s feelings about Marxism are revealed.
On pages 18to19, there is an explanation about the teacher’s outlook about the
prevalent spiritual traditions and practices.
On pages 20 to 22, there is a discussion on the restless seeking of answers and self
On pages 23to24, we get an idea about the assurance of inner prompting; amidst
the stress experienced while in the search of truth.
On pages 24to27, we learn about the identification of NAMASMARAN as the
single, simple and easy to practice democratic universal solution to individual
and universal problems i.e. a panacea!
On pages 27to28, there is an introduction to the germ of Total Stress Management.
On pages 28to31, we explore how the promise of individual and global blossoming
and the “soul” of atheism and theism; are embodied in NAMASMARAN.
On pages 30to32, we find the analogies to explain the exact and holistic meaning
of total stress management.
On pages 32 to 34, there is an explanation of the physiological concept of stress.
On pages 34to35, there is a brief discussion on the physiological and
pathophysiological aspects of mechanisms underlying stress.
On pages 36to42, we come across the ocean of the causes of stress, which are
On pages 42to47, we explore the incidence and extent of medical ailments and
general suffering resulting from stress.
On pages 47to51, we get an insight into the support systems; and the Total Stress
Management, which embodies; SADDHARANA (conviction), SADVICHAR
(thoughts), SADBHAVANA (emotions), SATPRAVRUTTI (motivation),
SADVASANA (instincts), SATSANKALP (plan), SATKARMA(deed) and
SADACHAR (behavior) culminating in Self realization; and how it is a product of
NAMASMARAN or being oriented to true self.
On pages 52to53, we get further clarity about SATPRERANA (perspective of
oneness), SADDHARANA (conviction), SADVICHAR (thoughts), and
SADBHAVANA (emotions), SATPRAVRUTTI (motivation), SADVASANA
(instincts), SATSANKALP (plan) and SATKARMA or SADACHAR.
On pages 53to 55, we get some more insights in NAMASMARAN.
On pages 55to58, we find analysis of our hollow rhetoric and hypocrisy.
On pages 58to60, there is an explanation; about how NAMASMARAN,
SADICCHAA, SATSHAKTI, SWADHARMA and ensuing social welfare are
On pages 61to62, the pros and cons of the abandoning of rationality are described.
On pages 62to65, entropy, negentropy, bhavarog, bhavasagar and their relevance
to stress management are explained.
On pages 65to67, there is a depiction of how an intellectual activity and the
NAMASMARAN are complementary.
On pages 67to69, there is an affirmation of how NAMASMARAN is a preventive
and curative measure; in all; but especially in children!
On pages 69 to71, there is an appreciation of the traditional practices of
NAMAJAP and NAMASMARAN; and future of NAMASMARAN.
On pages 72to78, we can visualize; the universalization of the practice of
NAMASMARAN and Total Stress Management (SAMASHTI YOGA); as a
function of the omniscient, omnipotent, omnipresent NAMA, which is also implied
in the aphorisms SHRIRAM SAMARTH and RAMA KARTA.
On page 80 there is the world famous prayer; yearning for individual and universal
blossoming; in Sanskrit; along with its essence in English.
I gratefully acknowledge Dr. Suhas Mhetre’s dedicated efforts to upload this Heart
to Heart Dialogue for free download on five hundred international free sharing
websites; and to produce video CD/ audio CD/audio book/book; and Respected
Shri. Madhukar (Nana) V. Kelkar’s valuable suggestions, appreciation and
encouragement. I thankfully acknowledge the participation in one way or another
and direct or indirect; of everyone in production of this work.
Lastly; I thank you for choosing to read or listen this; as that would catalyze
blossoming of mine also; besides that of thousands of others! Participation in
NAMASMARAN is always a “win-win” situation. The work of this type is never
complete and never perfect. Your suggestions would be always welcomed; and
carefully considered and responded to.
Thank you very much
Shriniwas Janardan Kashalikar
Student: Sir, can you please help me? I am really helpless! There is no ray of hope
whatsoever! I am living like a vegetable! Every day just comes and goes; without
any kind of excitement or fulfillment. There is no motivation for living! Many
advise me to practice NAMASMARAN. But; from what I have heard and read;
even though NAMASMARAN is advocated by many as a panacea; there are many
according to whom; it is an idle practice and has nothing to do with the day to day
problems! This is why; I am in dilemma! Do you think there is any value of
NAMASMARAN, in my agony? Please clear my doubts!
Teacher: This is a genuine question! Actually your problem has become quite
common! Let us have a heart to heart dialogue and see; if that can help you. But
please don’t expect a readymade solution. Don’t think of passively following me.
That does not work. Be bold, frank and inquisitive. Challenge me! But it should
not be in a casual manner. In such matters; the casual gossip proves useless; and
Student: Agreed! Sir, how can I afford to be casual in this state? I need a genuine
and effective guidance. I assure you; I won’t be casual for my own sake!
Teacher: Fine! I will try to explain whatever I am convinced about; step by step.
You can always interrupt me, if I fail to clarify my point at any stage. Is that OK?
Student: Yes Sir! Perfect! I am really lucky that you have agreed to help me in
this state of helplessness! I am fortunate to have you; to clarify my doubts and help
me to conquer my stress!
Teacher: Thank you! But the doubts can be cleared by discussion; only up to a
certain point. Final clarity and conviction ensues in the course of time; through
practice and verification! Hence; for the time being; consider at least
provisionally; that NAMASMARAN is a panacea that delivers Total Stress
Management; and begin to practice it. Let your practice go on; alongside our heart
to heart interactions!
Please understand that NAMASMARAN is like water. We realize its importance
only if we drink it; not merely if we read and discuss about it! It is also like food.
In absence of eating; the discussion on food is futile! In fact; NAMASMARAN is
even more important! It is like oxygen. We realize the value of oxygen only if we
breathe it; not by mere discussion.
Student: I understand what you say; but I am not quite convinced by the
analogies! It is difficult to accept NAMASMARAN even provisionally and begin
its practice; even in this unbearable state of mine!
Teacher: We have to bear in mind that most of us; are initially ignorant; like a
new born baby. If a new born baby did not breathe; because it did not know its
value; then it would be dead. In the same way; if we did not practice
NAMASMARAN; right from the beginning, then we would be “dead” due to
deprivation from; the nectar of true self or God; deep within us! Hence even if you
are not convinced about the analogies; it is vital to begin its practice. In the course
of our discussion and your own practice; you may either confirm its pivotal role as
a source of Total Stress Management and permanently internalize it; or rule out its
role altogether; and reject it!
Student: OK Sir! OK! I will do it. I respect your earnestness! I cannot disregard it;
even if I am not convinced! I will verify the potentials of NAMASMARAN; just
because you say! But Sir, Please tell me how I should start its practice.
Teacher: That is good! I appreciate your open mindedness. It is advisable to start
remembering the name of any entity you love and revere selflessly and
maximally. The choice of name is very important because; this is the first step; to
realize the ultimate truth, which that name implies! You may remember it audibly
or silently and with or without a rosary. Practice it when you wake up, before
eating or drinking; and before you go to bed! Overall; it is good to start with about
five minutes per day and gradually increase!
Student: Is that all? No other conditions?
Teacher: Yes! That is all! No conditions. No paraphernalia!
Now; let us come back to your problem! Actually it is “our” problem! In my view;
this is a dissociation from the true self; the power house! This point will be clear in
the course of our discussion. As regards the doubt about NAMASMARAN, it is
because; there is a conflict in our mind; between what we observe; and what we are
preached. On the one hand; we observe all the life; full of its complexities and
contradictions, which appears real; and on the other; we are preached that this real
life is transient, ephemeral, unreal and illusory! Further; NAMA, which appears
unreal and illusory to us; is preached to be real!
We find it difficult to reconcile; the “real” day to day struggle for survival; and the
ambiguous idealism of seeking the “unreal truth” which is believed to be beyond
all these! We find it hard to bridge the chasm between the day to day apparently
real suffering; and the abstract quest apparently illusory truth in the form of
different modes of devotion, penance and meditation including NAMASMARAN!
We find it difficult to relate the actual transactions in life (political, economic,
educational, medical and other fields of life); and the apparently inconsequential,
superfluous and idealistic pursuits! In fact; we are unable to see any coherence
between the compulsions of daily life and the inexplicable mysterious urge to seek
and realize the truth! Strangely; this urge is said to be meritorious and ubiquitous
though we are not aware of it!
Student: You have restated my question more explicitly and exactly! To me; my
problems are real and concrete; whereas, the practice of NAMASMARAN is
beating around the bush. How can this idle practice of NAMASMARAN (or other
devotional practices involved in religions and/or spiritualism), devoid of any
rational and tangible solutions and activities; help me?
Teacher: I understand your question, because; even I had this question once upon
a time! Therefore we will try to evolve the answer; from the story my early
perceptions, which culminated into my present convictions. I think it will make
Student: I think that is a good idea! I will love it! Your first hand experiences will
be far more interesting, appealing and befitting than some theoretical quotes and
jargons picked up from scriptures or books of ideology and philosophy!
Teacher: During childhood; I was neither aware of the meaning, causes,
dimensions, mechanisms of stress; and its far reaching effects on individual and
social life, nor I understood the meaning of NAMASMARAN!
In those days; I used to feel contented for a while; in relishing good food, wearing
good clothes, passing examinations, getting ranks, getting awards, winning
competitions, nurturing friendships, increasing achievements, getting lost in
entertainment, brooding on infatuations, dwelling in utopia and also; helping the
others in one way or another. The pains and failures did disturb, but temporarily.
Student: Wasn’t it a happy state of affairs? My childhood also was similar!
Teacher: It was a period of peace before the storm! Because; later; I began to get
disturbed by poverty; and other miseries in the society; associated with it! Now;
alongside the petty pursuits; there was a growing urge to help others!
Student: But I did not get disturbed by poverty in the society!
Teacher: Doesn’t matter! Whether you were disturbed by one thing or another;
and whether you knew about it or not! Because; the issue is that of coming out of
the disturbance! Isn’t it?
Student: That is true!
Teacher: So, let us see what I did to overcome my disturbance!
Student: What did you do?
Teacher: I began to study and follow wherever feasible; the teachings of different
thinkers and visionaries; in different fields of life; in addition to the curricular
Around this time I also came across NAMASMARAN as well! But it appeared
gullible or callous; to simply advocate NAMASMARAN for every problem,
instead of actively helping the suffering people! Hence I found that one of the
simplest, easiest and practical things; to do; was to try and be charitable.
Student: Did you try your hand at charity consciously? You must have! But sir, so
far I am not involved in any charity; at least consciously! I think the difference
begins with this!
Teacher: Again let me reiterate; we are bound to differ on several counts! But the
main point is of finding out a common way of coming out of the disturbance!
Student: OK! OK! Please continue sir!
Teacher: I used to get emotionally charged with even the thought of doing charity!
I used to feel excited in any and every charitable activity! But through my
experiences and observations over years; I found; that even as charity was
necessary as an immediate rescue and relief activity; it proved to be insufficient on
the long term basis! It was at best; a palliative symptomatic treatment. It could not
help to eradicate the root cause.
Student: Can you clarify? At least apparently; the charity in any form; is a very
noble activity. It has a healing effect. It gives solace to millions!
Teacher: I will clarify what I mean. Charity is obviously preferable to a criminal
or irresponsible behavior harmful to others! It is certainly nobler; as and when
compared with inertia, laziness, lassitude, pessimism, escapism and cynicism! It is
also superior to maniacal self centeredness, petty selfishness and profiteering at the
cost of others!
In fact; charity is extremely valuable in emergency situations. It is tremendously
useful as a rehabilitatory activity. Moreover; it is also important in terms of
satisfying our own innate need to help others! Actually in absence of charity; all
of us are starved of the nectar deep within us; though most often we are not
aware of it!
But the reason I felt unsatisfied with charity; was because; barring emergency
situations; often it was found to be misused! It led to perpetuation of
irresponsibility, dependency, lethargy and parasitic tendencies; in those who were
beneficiaries; and it developed condescending attitude, arrogance; and even
cheating and unabated exploitative behavior in the “givers”! Through introspection
I found that; though I felt happy in charity; mere charity did not eliminate the evils
within me; whether I was a helping person or a helped one!
Student: Sir, I never looked into myself from this angle! This is a revelation! Do
you think; my heart is also pining to be of some help to others? Do you think I also
need to perceive the need of doing charity and going beyond it? Would it benefit
me in my present misery?
Teacher: Yes. It will benefit you! Actually like mine and yours; every heart pines
to help others; but being unaware of it; most people do not pay attention to it! They
keep suffering; while being entangled in superficial and petty pursuits! As I could
hear the cry of my heart; I did not give up charity as a concept and practice; but
began to search what more was needed; apart from charity.
Student: Was it at this time; that you turned to NAMASMARAN?
Teacher: No! I did not turn to NAMASMARAN at that time. But besides
biographies and other philosophical books, I got introduced to Marxism and
various thought currents in leftist ideology.
Student: Marxism? Did it help you? What did you find in it? Did you join any
leftist party? How can Marxism help me?
Teacher: A very important aspect of Marxism is; it fuelled my concern for the
suffering that is common to billions. It intensified and sharpened my motivation; as
well as; my actual intellectual, emotional and physical involvement in the efforts to
find out the root cause of suffering and eradicate the same! It empowered the rustic
fighter within me; to end exploitation, injustice and resultant misery in society! I
began to listen; apart from the cry of my heart; to the call of my conscience, which
was hitherto; barely accessible to me! This aspect of Marxism was and is; more
than vital for every one of us! I found true atheism to be an empowering doctrine;
as it could free an individual from the paranoid fear of God and the parasitic
dependence on God!
Student: What exactly is the meaning of atheism? Is it just a lack of belief in God?
Is it not arrogant to deny the existence of some creator or a superpower?
Teacher: This is a complex subject! The prevalent interpretation of the word
theism; is belief in God and atheism connotes lack of faith in God. But this is just a
superficial comprehension! It does not explore the deeper meanings of the words
“God” and the “belief”!
Student: What do you mean by that?
Teacher: In true sense; atheism means denial of an alien entity, whether we call it
God, Guru, Satan, ghost or angel; ruling us; and theism means denial of an alien
entity ruling us other than our true self, whether we call it God, Guru, NAMA or
BRAHMA! Both do not deny the self!
Secondly; belief is a loose word! Actually belief and disbelief inherently embody
uncertainty! Both; belief as well as disbelief; are devoid of a conviction and/or
experience! In conviction or experience there is no question of belief or disbelief;
and there is certainty!
Student: But why are these two at loggerheads?
Teacher: It is because atheists as well as the theists are believers. Atheists believe
in their reasoning and theists also believe in their reasoning. But both are
subjective and fallible. Both are feeble and fragile. Both become meek in times of
difficulty. Atheists seek help from their sources and theist from their own! Both are
dependent and both feel that their ways are right! This has made their behavior
opposed to each other! The theists are involved in devotional activities revolving
around personal salvation; while the atheists are engaged in pursuits revolving
around material conditions.
Student: I never thought of this! In other words; even as the spirit of true atheism
is not against the spirit of true theism; both are opposed to each other!
Teacher: Absolutely! As and when I understood, this; I realized that true atheism
could emancipate the downtrodden including me; to rise above the parasitic
mentality to look towards some alien God; for help and support; in any and every
difficulty. I thought true atheism was an empowering as well as enlightening
doctrine. Because; it inspired one and all; to study, analyze, rationalize and
contemplate on problems; and search for solutions; rather than attributing every
kind of justice and injustice to some imaginary God! I saw it as a doctrine that
wakened and enlivened one and all; to a vibrant, dynamic and brave life; from the
slumber of listlessness, indolence and coward parasitism! Similarly I realized that
true theism embodied devotion to true self and not to any alien God!
Student: Once again; this is a different way to look at Marxism! I think I did not
think of this; because of the delirium of petty success and melancholy of petty
failures! I am beginning to realize that my problem is of hysterical amplification of
my petty concerns; irrespective of whether I call myself a theist or an atheist! As a
result I am voluntarily embracing entropy; and choosing a downhill course! Sir,
one more question! Why didn’t you continue to be a Marxist?
Teacher: I haven’t taken divorce from Marxism! The spirit of Marxism continues
to nurture my heart! But those days; I was influenced by the superficial details of
Marxism, and thought that for every malady in society; the root cause was poverty
due to class division; and exploitation of one class by the other.
But I realized through my experiences; that; “Equality is not and should not be a
kind of regimentalization. Castes and caste differences, religions and the religious
differences, classes and the class differences; could not be eliminated; through
coercion. But even then; the enmity and strife could be eliminated and harmony
could be established! As regards exploitation; it is far more deep rooted than
apparent! Firstly; it is complemented by both; the exploiters as well as the
exploited ones; and secondly; every individual including me; has an element of an
exploiter and an exploited!
Moreover the divisions; of the society in castes, creeds, religions and classes; are
only broadly realistic. They are not watertight compartments. In fact; all these are
so much interwoven and intermingled that no kind of caste, creed, religion, race
or class struggle is; feasible and justifiable. It can bring about at best; only
external, superficial and temporary changes, without elimination of the deep seated
Moreover I never felt comfortable; to consider the religions, which I thought were
really well meaning; as a pill of opium. I could not think that the kind hearted and
selfless prophets, visionaries and saints were merchants of opium.
Student: Sir, I think this outlook about charity and Marxism; have already
changed me a lot! I am beginning to overcome my hysteria, melancholy and
cynicism. I am experiencing a change in my vision and see what I never imagined
before. I am beginning to see my freedom from the shackles of my own pettiness. I
am able to share the pain of billions, which is actually mine; and the immense
power of these billions; to get freed, which is also mine! Sir, I am experiencing a
leap forward, a quantum growth! I am happy that you did not stop at any
penultimate reality; as that is benefiting me today! Was this due to the insatiable
quest of truth in you?
Teacher: It could be, but it happened in me! I don’t think as an individual; I can
take credit for it! Today I am neither a conformist philanthropist nor a conformist
leftist; though I cherish the essence of both!
Student: Did you; as a result of this quest of truth; turn to spiritualism and
Teacher: Actually; during this learning process itself; I was never cut off from
religion, spiritualism, occultism, mysticism etc. I was always enthusiastic to know
and accept, anything; that could be globally benevolent and internally satisfying.
Student: But at least apparently; your involvement must have changed; from stage
of being charitable to the stage of being a Marxist; and from the stage of being
Marxist to your present stage! Is it not true?
Teacher: Yes! That is true.
Student: Sir, up till now; I did not notice the concern of my soul for the pains of
others. I neither tried my hand at charity nor did I grow with the Marxist spirit of
struggling to destroy the root causes of pains common to me and others! But,
while going from strength to strength what merit did you find in spiritualism? Was
it useful to you? Would it help me as well?
Teacher: There was always something magnanimous and noble in the religious
and spiritual traditions; that attracted me and commanded my respect and even
reverence. I did not know concretely; what it was, but there was something that
haunted me! It could be; the perspective of universal unity, utmost noble
heartedness, total selflessness, unquestionable honesty, exemplary simplicity,
adorable kindness or something extraordinary linked to God i.e. true self!
Student: What were the shortcomings? What should I avoid?
Teacher: I thought the religion and spiritualism, which I came across; were alien
from the socioeconomic and political mainstream. Various cults, traditions, creeds
and religious practices appeared marginalized and merely survived on donations. I
thought they had become the caricatures of themselves; even though; in some
instances at least; they did some appreciable charitable work.
I found that spiritualism that I came across; provided temporary psychological
solace, without much change in the objective conditions, in which, a common
person like me lived.
In short, I could not be satisfied by materialistic approach as well as the religious
and spiritual traditions I encountered. I could not find a way of simultaneous inner
as well as outer; and individual as well as global blossoming!
Student: That means; you were not quite satisfied with the then prevalent
materialism as well as spiritualism! Charity, Marxism as well as spiritualism don’t
seem to have helped you!
Teacher: That is not true! All these constitute an extremely valuable heritage of
human civilization. But if we don’t go to their root, then they don’t help. We have
to actually meet the “self” of true atheism and “God” of true theism! Actually I
could; though faintly; perceive the fact that; what the atheists called “self” was the
same, which was revered by the theists as God. This was why; I could neither
dislike atheist tradition; nor the theist tradition.
Student: Sir, this is becoming difficult. Is human suffering so vast and so much
difficult to conquer, without going in these minutiae? Don’t we get isolated from
all the traditions; and are left alone; due this so called search of truth?
Teacher: There is no short cut! But please note; I was never broken away from
any of them! I perceived and tried to pursue the whisper of my deep instincts,
which cherished the essence of all traditions I came across! Only thing is that; I
was not in perfect conformity with any of them.
I had a distinct feeling that; innate aspirations of all the doctrines, which I
came across; were those of global welfare and innate fulfillment. In essence;
they were in complete agreement. But I was not able to identify and pinpoint
the essence or the abstract link connecting them.
Hence intellectually as well as emotionally; I was restless. I had a lot to learn. I had
to expand my perspective. I had to expand my intellectual as well as emotional
horizons. I was falling short. This is why I kept on reading and experimenting. But
I did not find any specific solution. I merely came to a provisional conclusion
that there was a need to raise the mass consciousness, trigger mass
awakening; and initiate or boost; the fight against injustice in every field. I
began to write and share my restlessness, my criticism, my enthusiasm and my
Student: Sir, in those day; you must have been going through intellectual and
emotional storms! How can I bear with such storms; in my distress? Isn’t there any
other easier way?
Teacher: At least I don’t know. But you can surely bear with; as well as overcome
all such storms!
Student: OK! OK! At this stage you had grown out of charity, Marxism as well as
the prevalent spiritualism. What was the theme of your writing then? How would
you categorize your writing?
Teacher: I cannot categorize it. It did not belong to any specific category. But at
that time; I thought it represented the aspirations of all the philosophies and
traditions I came across. But now I realize that all that writing; was still a groping
in the dark! The views were piecemeal solutions. They were aimed at being
holistic i.e. universal; but still were not holistic and hence could not heal the root
causes. Naturally; there was no fulfillment inside and there was no tangible
Student: But during all this; weren’t there any hindrances, disputes, conflicts in
personal or social life? Didn’t your career and your personal ambitions come in the
way? How can I possibly trek on this steep and arduous path of search of truth?
Teacher: There were hindrances. But we all; whether involved in charity,
Marxism or spiritualism; were aware; that in spite of limitations; we had similar
aspirations. Hence even though there were disputes, conflicts and differences in
family and personal life, they were not inimical and vicious. They were not ill
intended. They were not petty. They never revolved around mundane matters.
Hence there was no; out and out malice and hatred. The deeper warm bonds
remained intact. In fact; the tensions triggered a further and more intense
As regards the career; the primary focus in the career was to follow the whisper of
my deep instincts! As a result the search for a holistic solution continued
unabated. The difficulties in this search; actually triggered even keener study and
exploration. In fact the difficulties helped me to grow from within as well as in my
With respect to your trekking; it is not by choice but by virtue of the innate
compulsion that we tread this path of individual and global blossoming. The very
fact that you are in need of the genuine, radical and holistic solution for your
stress; confirms that you are able to trek this path successfully!
Student: But how could one bring about socio-political changes, in absence of
active participation in politics or social movements? How could one overcome the
stress in personal life? How could one get a promotion in job; by this work, which
has no value? How could one get financial security without following the demands
of the job and market? Don’t you think, this path does not assure social welfare as
well as personal well being? I think; in such a situation; you must have gone
through a lot of turmoil in spite of your inexplicable whisper of deeper
instincts! How can all this help me?
Teacher: That is true. I was in turmoil. Neither personal success, nor the social
goals; were being realized. It created self doubts, self abnegation, and self pity and
so on. I had nothing to hold on to!
But in spite of all this; there was much more than a silver lining! I always had
enormous and intense; though far from complete; fulfillment in terms of being in
tune with the whisper of my deep instincts; now growing into the inner voice of
my conscience! I assure you; being in tune with the inner voice will help; not only
you in trekking this path, but millions and millions! You just have to learn to listen
to this inner prompting! Even as it was quite indistinct in those days; it gave me
the assurance that I was on right track and was sure to make a wholesome
contribution to the content of sociopolitical movements and personal
Student: Isn’t your whisper of deep instincts, the inner voice of your conscience or
the inner prompting; a mysterious entity?
Teacher: It appears mysterious when we are not familiar with it. But when we
identify and get conversant with it; it is no more mysterious! I did not know the
significance of the inner prompting at that time. But it helped me and would help
you also; to keep going; from strength to strength! I did not yield to pressure of the
surroundings! Even amidst despair, frustration, helplessness and hopelessness; I
still did not have the feeling of a total defeat!
Student: Was it at that time; that you turned to NAMASMARAN?
Teacher: No! I did not turn to NAMASMARAN even at that time; but as I said
earlier, I was never cut off from any doctrines or traditions. NAMASMARAN was
one of the many things I was studying.
Student: But then; how did you manage your frustration? Please tell me. It will
help me in managing my stress.
Teacher: Like anybody else; I also tried to contend myself; by being in friends’
company, by being flattered and by indulging. But being hollow; by their very
nature; these things could not satiate and quiet me! In fact; they churned me from
within; and propelled me for an even more intense search for that essence or
abstract link connecting various doctrines! So, I kept on searching for it and
also for a panacea that would work in all ailments, all sufferings, for all
nations, all races, all classes, all religions and all ideologies; and at individual
as well as global levels! But let me tell you; this propulsion was not a conscious,
deliberate and planned effort! It was just happening in me! I had no control over it.
I could not start or stop it. The search was irresistible! I was possessed by the ever
growing inner prompting!
Student: This was; how the exploration brought you closer to the holistic concepts
and the panacea!
Teacher: Yes! But I did not even know the word holistic! I simply kept on
studying and wherever feasible; practicing and verifying different ideas. I was still
far away from any holistic concepts and any panacea!
Student: Sir! Is my desire to seek advice from you; actually a result of inner
prompting, which I could not identify till now; as “inner prompting”? Now I am
more anxious to understand and actually verify the usefulness of your present
concepts of Total Stress Management and NAMASMARAN!
Teacher: Of course! Your desire is born out of your inner prompting!
Actually it is around this time that I began to realize that all what I had written had
some value. But was not universal and did not spring from the ultimate depths of
my heart! Naturally, it did not reach the ultimate depths of the hearts of others! In
other words, the solutions could not be universally effective and far from complete.
In fact; I realized that this was true for all the written solutions, decrees,
commandments and prescriptions, which I had come across! They had a great
value and a great role for different individuals and different societies at different
times. But they could not be universal; in view of the effectiveness; and also in
view of personal freedom. They needed enlightened modifications or refinements
from time to time with realization of their essence i.e. the abstract yet strong link
uniting them! This could make them appropriate to different periods, places,
social, cultural, religious and political situations.
Now my task was to re-explore, re-discover or re-invent that single, simple and
easy to practice universal solution – panacea, which could evolve a holistic
perspective to make this possible! It also had to enable us to think benevolently
for the universe and evolve policies, plans and programs benevolent to the
universe! This could be according to our capacity, constitution and position; In
other words; it had to impart a holistic thinking. It had to evolve irrepressible love
and care; i.e. holistic feelings and holistic instincts! Lastly; that panacea had to
engender cooperation amongst us to execute the policies, plans and programs of
global benefit, which we can call holistic actions or behavior.
Student: In short; that panacea had to bring about a change in the world that
would influence every individual life in totality; so as to enable him or her to
evolve holistic perspective, policies, programs, plans and their implementation
in his or her respective field.
Teacher: That is right! This practical solution – a panacea, which I had not yet
found with certainty; thus had to; revitalize and rejuvenate the environment inside
and outside of an individual; so as to enable him/her to help evolve himself/herself
and others from inside as well as outside. It had to be so much democratic that it
had to be available to every individual irrespective of age, sex, occupation, caste,
creed, tradition, custom, race, religion, nation and any distinction for that matter!
After thinking of several possibilities, thanks to my Guru; Shri Brahmachaitanya
Maharaj Gondavalekar; I realized that “NAMA” is the essence and the connecting
link and “the single, simple, easy to practice and democratic universal
solution”, which fulfills all the criteria about the panacea; is
In short, much before the concepts about Total Stress Management were
crystallized, I identified the potentials of NAMASMARAN.
Student: I really appreciate the intentions and the reasons underlying the
development of these concepts. But I am still not quite convinced as to how the
NAMASMARAN can be useful to me!
Teacher: Fine! Actually I also had not developed the conviction about
NAMASMARAN at that time, which I have today. In fact; as I said; I had no idea
even about the holistic concept of stress. It was merely an identification of the
panacea. I had just begun to understand; the suffering in life; more holistically and
the need of making the solutions also more holistic! There was still; a lot of
ambiguity with respect to the details; as to how NAMASMARAN would enable us
to understand the problems more holistically and evolve holistic solutions!
It is only then, when I began to study the physiological and pathophysiological
aspects of the meaning, mechanism, causes and effects of stress; that it became
clear; that the stress in an individual influences adversely; the social life and the
support systems; and vice versa! Moreover it also became clear that the spiritual,
religious, philosophical, ideological, political, social, economic, psychological,
physiological, pathophysiological and clinical/medical approaches to
understanding and management of stress were complementary. I realized that the
stress management at merely at individual level or merely at social level could not
be optimally effective. It had to be a simultaneous process of individual and
This was the germ of Total Stress Management!
This led to further study of NAMASMARAN as a panacea! I had studied
NAMASMARAN and practiced it earlier; but by now I started appreciating its
power to transform an individual; in terms of empowering him or her to
develop a holistic perspective, thinking, planning, programming and
implementation and thus influence the universal support systems and the
Student: I think I shall be able to appreciate the importance of NAMASMARAN
as I learn more about stress! But it seems that this revelation was satisfying!
Teacher: In a way; yes; because even though the essence of this realization was
clearly stated in the literature, which I had come across; it was not explicit. The
focus was on God realization, salvation, liberation, emancipation etc, without a
clear reference to the concrete material counterpart of the global welfare.
Most of the well meaning atheists as well as theists; in spite of harboring an
enlightened and a conscientious heart; and generous mind; did not realize the
importance of NAMASMARAN as a means of growing more objective. They did
not understand the pivotal role of NAMASMARAN in breaking the shackles of
ego and subjectivity. They did not appreciate the fact; that the policies, plans,
programs and their implementation; needed to be; increasingly holistic and could
surely be made; increasingly holistic, through NAMASMARAN.
I realized that true atheism is; nullifying the stupefying influence of apparent
environment; and true theism is ability to realize the otherwise imperceptible
true self! Even the materialistic and spiritual pursuits in my nature; were fully
satisfied, when I realized that every material pursuit; including the sustenance
and nurturing of our physical existence; becomes meaningful, worthwhile and
fulfilling, when aimed at culminating into the realization of true self! With this
understanding the atheist and theist facets of my mine; were simultaneously
In absence of this understanding it appeared to me that there was a strong
possibility of atheists as well as theists going astray, skip their duties
(SWADHARMA); remain selfish and indolent; and yet infatuate; either
“social revolution” or “individual liberation” respectively.
I thought, this error of omission of the universal benevolence of
NAMASMARAN, was as real and as big; as that of being oblivious to the
omnipotent benevolence of true self or God!
Student: What exactly you mean by SWADHARMA? Can you clarify further?
Teacher: From absolute truth manifests; SWADHARMA as a source of
SATPRERANA, SADDHARANA, SADVICHAR, SADICCHHAA,
SADBHAVANA, SATPRAVRUTTI, SADVASANA, SATSANKALP and
SATKARMA, which together constitute SADACHAR. I am going to explain all
this in the course of time!
Student: Now I am able to appreciate what you mean by the assurance of the inner
prompting! You could not have persisted in your search-a totally thankless search-
of panacea; in absence of listening to the inner prompting! It is clear that in
absence of this; stress in my life made me mean and in turn; the meanness
aggravated the stress! I got trapped in non holistic or sectarian perspective,
thinking, feelings, instincts and actions, which enabled me to adopt only piecemeal
solutions. These solutions in turn; casted deleterious influences on me and I
became a victim of a perpetual vicious cycle of stress-deterioration-stress-
Teacher: Yes! You are right! But please do not feel guilty. It took about three
decades for me to understand this much! Moreover please note that this
understanding also; is not absolute!
Student: Thank you very much sir, for your consoling and comforting
reassurance! Please elaborate further on stress, Total Stress Management and
Teacher: Surely; I will! Please tally it with your experience of stress; so that our
discussion can prove more fruitful! The stress is present during embryonic life, in
all age groups, during sleep and dreams, during conscious, subconscious as well
unconscious states and also during coma! Moreover; it is present in all forms of
life! Thus; stress is far too deep and far more ubiquitous than what is presumed. It
is as vast as life! Hence it is the same as MAYA i.e. everything that we see, know,
think, feel, experience, like, dislike, love, hate and irresistibly and irrevocably lose
in the past! MAYA is a fleeting phenomenon and hence involvement in MAYA is
followed by emptiness! In simple words, MAYA is everything other than NAMA!
Student: This is exactly what is extremely difficult to believe! How can I deny the
existence of the harrowing reality?
Teacher: I know it is difficult to believe! But actually it should not be believed in!
It is only through the persistent practice of NAMASMARAN that the
consciousness is raised to a level from where the fleeting nature of “harrowing
reality” becomes evident!
Student: I never imagined earlier; that stress could be so vast! No wonder, I am
getting drowned in this ocean of stress! Can you briefly explain stress as well as
Total Stress Management; in nutshell; if that may help me; with some analogies;
to make it simpler?
Teacher: Yes! That will surely help you to conquer your stress!
Stress is like a horse! But it would never leave us at any cost! So there is no lasting
escape from it. There are only few options.
A) Getting dragged after it,
B) Getting bitten or beaten by it,
C) Carrying it on our head,
D) Beating or killing the horse,
E) Learning to “ride” the horse with delight
The last option is the same as Total Stress Management (TSM).
Student: Can we give the analogy of river? Because MAYA is compared to river!
Teacher: Yes! MAYA is called BHAVANADI a river! Stress also is like a river,
in which we are born! There are only two options; either to get drowned, or to
learn to swim to the bank. Learning to swim to the bank is Total Stress
Analogy of traffic jam also helps! It is not an exact analogy but helps in
understanding stress and Total Stress Management and even this understanding
also is useful in reducing stress!
1. The Causes of stress; called stressors are like excess number of vehicles
coming from all directions.
2. The individual under stress is like a square where the signals or the traffic police
are not working.
3. The signs and symptoms of stress are like the excess crowding, anxiety due to
inability to reach destinations, quarrels amongst the drivers, excessive blowing of
horns, chemical pollution etc.
4. The pathology is inability of the vehicles to move and reach their destinations.
5. The Relaxation Techniques prevalent today; are like arbitrary and isolated
efforts to calm down the drivers and prohibit the blowing of horns.
6. The relaxation techniques therefore can bring about temporary peace (temporary
symptomatic relief) but cannot help the vehicles to reach their destinations (cannot
effectively remove the pathological changes and handle the stressors effectively).
7. Total Stress Management is re-establishing the functioning of the signals and re-
instituting the traffic police (perception) so that the crowding, jam (homeostatic
disturbances or affect), blowing of horns, quarrels (symptoms and signs) and the
reaching of the destinations (handling the stressors and rectification of the
pathological changes), are made possible.
Student: Now I seem to have got some idea about stress and Total Stress
Management. How would you define stress physiologically?
Teacher: Stress is an interaction between “self” and the environment inside and
outside body! The effects of stress; means variable acute or chronic changes; in the
internal (also external) environment of the body. The normal stress such as
moderate exercise is useful. But when we talk of “stress” we actually mean
harmful stress or distress, which causes adverse effects on almost every cell of the
body; making life miserable in several ways.
Student: What is this internal environment of the body?
Teacher: The body cells contain fluid within them and they themselves are present
in a fluid medium. Generally the fluid, by which they are surrounded, is called
internal environment. But recently some authorities consider the fluid which they
contain; also forms the internal environment of the body.
Student: What are the characteristics of this internal environment?
Teacher: The internal environment has certain concentration of hydrogen, sodium,
potassium, calcium, chloride, magnesium etc. It has certain osmolality,
temperature, viscosity etc. The text books of physiology, describe these in details,
but it is not necessary to burden our memory with all the details.
Student: What is the importance of this internal environment?
Teacher: The importance of the internal environment is that, various physical and
chemical characteristics of the internal environment have to be maintained within a
certain range, if the body cells and hence the organism; have to function in a
normal i.e. healthy way. If the characteristics undergo drastic variations, then
functioning and even living becomes difficult and/or painful. This should explain
to you; the importance of the internal environment as well as the importance of any
factor/s, which may bring about drastic changes in it.
Student: This has crystallized the concept of stress and Total Stress Management
to some extent. But now; I am curious to understand the mechanisms underlying
stress; though not in details; at least grossly!
Teacher: OK! For the moment; we will keep aside the philosophical aspects of
stress, such as previous birth, past life, sanchit, prarabdha, rebirth, soul etc and
also; the traditional ways of managing stress.
The mechanisms; as we understand today; were progressively discovered in last
century by conducting experiments on animals. Hans Selye is known to be the
pioneer of stress physiology. He discovered the effects of various stressful stimuli
in animals and called them General Adaption Syndrome GAS.
Stressors stimulate special cells or special molecules in the cells. These special
cells are called neural receptors and the special molecules are called molecular
receptors. There are receptors inside the body; called internal receptors and on
surface of the body; called external receptors. Stimulation of these receptors brings
about changes in the internal environment proportionate to the intensity, frequency,
variety, complexity and pattern of stressors.
There are four main and well known mechanisms by which stress and its effects
a) Various stressors act on the part of brain called limbic system. This leads to
secretion of various chemical substances. These are called neurotransmitters,
because they transmit information from one nerve cell to another. They are
secreted in small quantity in a central funnel like part at the bottom of brain called
hypothalamus. The hypothalamus in turn secretes hormones, which are chemicals
directly released in blood and are carried to the pituitary gland, which is
underneath the hypothalamus. The pituitary gland in turn secretes hormones which
are released in the blood and reach various glands but especially the Adrenal
cortex. It secretes cortisol, which, when in excess; is responsible for various ill
effects of stress; such as on liver, heart and immune system responsible for body
b) Stressors can act on the pineal gland, which is located in the neighboring area
above the hypothalamus and secretes hormones called melatonin, 5
Hydroxytryptamine (5HT) and norpinephrine. It is conical in shape hence called
pineal. Because of stressors; the proportion, the quantity and the type of secretions
can become abnormal and this can cause several ill effects on hypothalamus,
pituitary, testes, ovaries, thyroid gland, adrenal cortex, pancreas and parathyroid. It
can cause disturbances of biorhythms, sleep. It reduces the resistance to cancer,
infections and overall stress.
c) Stressors can be in the form of certain changes in blood, bacteria in blood,
certain chemicals called antigens in the blood etc. All these act on the different
types of white blood cells (WBC), which in turn; produce several substances which
cause the effects of stress.
d) The stressors act on hypothalamus; but in this case the hormones secreted by the
hypothalamus; can directly enter the blood and produce the effects of stress by
direct action on various tissues. The details of all this; are given my book;
“Understanding and Management of Stress” available on internet for free
Student: I understood these mechanisms to some extent, not completely. But from
what I gathered; these mechanisms are wide ranging. For triggering such wide
ranging mechanisms to come in operation; the causes or the dimensions of stress
must also be wide ranging; are they?
Teacher: Yes! They are! Let us consider these stressors starting from non living
beings to human beings!
Student: Why do we consider the nonliving?
Teacher: The holistic perspective comprehends living (CHARA) and non living (ACHARA) to be in
continuity! From a very basic understanding point of view we can say that the stressors and stress; are
present in nonliving things! Thus stress of mechanical nature (not biological) is present in nonliving
things! When force is applied to an object, there is definite internal change and displacement in the object.
This force is akin to stressor in the case of living beings, the internal change is akin to homeostatic
change; i.e. change in the internal environment in case of the living beings and the displacement of an
object is akin to stress response in case of living beings.
It is obvious that if an object is subjected to a force, which it cannot sustain, then it
may be damaged. This damage is akin to an abnormal change in the internal
environment. The excessive displacement is analogous to disease in a living being.
Next to the nonliving things we can see stressors and stress; in unicellular animals! The
stressors here are in the form of exaggerated physical, chemical and biological changes in the
environment inside and outside. These are relatively, more complex as compared to those in nonliving
things; and are less stereotypical, though still, fairly predictable.
Followed by unicellular; we come to multicellular (many cells coming together
to form an organism or an animal!) animals, which are higher in evolutionary scale. In
these animals there is development of central nervous system, autonomic nervous system and endocrine
system. This leads to a perceptible increase in the level of consciousness. Thus they become conscious of
the sensations (Visual, auditory, olfactory, gustatory, tactile, pain, temperature, itching, gravity,
acceleration etc.). Moreover they possess instincts. Hence these animals suffer, if deprived of their
instincts! I call such deprivation an instinctual stressor.
Student: Can you explain this?
Teacher: The foremost instinct is that of survival! Fear of predator produces stress and is evident
when a cat faces a dog! The next is locomotion. If an animal is confined to a cage preventing the
locomotion altogether; or is exposed to abnormally rapid movement, then stress is produced which
damages the body systems. Next is a particular environment to which it is accustomed. It is called
habitat. Changing this environment causes stress. Hunger and thirst are also instincts. If an animal is
deprived of food; or there is change in the type or timing of food; cause stress. If there is change in the
source and timing of water (as in case of animals in zoo) or altogether unavailability of water; it produces
stress. Reproduction, parental care, herd formation; are also instincts. Abstinence from sex, herd and
separation from the newborn offspring; also cause stress.
Student: Sir, Will you explain; apart from satisfying my curiosity this account of stress will be useful
to me also; isn’t it?
Teacher; Yes! In us; physical, chemical, biological and instinctual stressors; are
present and in fact; all these become more in severity and complexity. All these
stressors cause and aggravate emotional and intellectual stress! Moreover there are
emotional (related to our feelings) and intellectual (related to our thinking)
stressors; in their own right!
Thus; in human beings; there is excessive stimulation of the receptors for vision, smell, taste,
hearing, touch, pressure, vibrations, and pain. This is due to sensory stressors in the form of reading, dirty
smells, lack of sunlight. enclosure in air-conditioned spaces, commuting, crowding, vibrations, loud
speakers, glittering & flickering lights, strange and rapidly mixing frames with aggressive and loud
advertising on TV, electrical /electrostatic strong fields, radiations due to various articles containing
radioactive materials or computer and color TV screens! In addition; other stressors are exhaust of
vehicles, mills, factories, excreta, lack of open space, lack of fresh air, lack of breeze, new cancer
promoting chemicals, infectious microorganisms, parasites and vectors.
The instinctual Stressors are multiplied in human beings because of overexposure to glorified display
of brazen and crude sexuality, indiscriminate violence, perverted eating and drinking, perverted struggles,
conspiracies, manipulations for material success, perverted parental behavior, petty selfish achievements
etc. causing undue stress on instincts. Child in crèche, KG, schools, boarding schools etc. develops
insecurity. Lack of enough privacy due to small houses and crowding disturbs sexual life and causes
stress. Similarly, inability to breast feed causes stress on parental instincts. Violence in the form of
murders, mass killings, hijacking, terrorism insurgency etc. has brought stress on survival instincts in
cities as well as villages. The instinctual stressors contribute to emotional stress.
Student: This is really a revelation! We used to consider stress very superficially!
Teacher: The emotional stressors; come into play; because of further development of nervous
system in us! This development makes us stronger in one sense; but vulnerable because of sensitivity in
Thus; the sources of emotional stress can be our body; because of pain, disease and poor self image due
to obesity, dwarfism, disfigurement, handicap, aging etc. The source can be our family. Ageing, disease,
disablement, handicap, addiction, death, discord, harassment, loneliness, unwantedness, individualistic
thinking, undue craze for quick money, social status, popularity, glamour and glitter, political power and
the resultant behavior; tear apart the human bonds amongst the family members. All these become much
more unmanageable because of nuclear family.
Student: What about the society?
Teacher: The source of emotional stress can be society also! Due to social discrimination, oppression,
lack of justice, inequality and caste discrimination we get emotional stress! Lack of severe reduction in
social cohesiveness, increasing social evils such as cheating, adulteration, excessive pace of life and also
produce and/or aggravate emotional stress. Emotional stress could be due to coercive cultural rules,
regulations, customs, traditions and conventions, alienation of the culture, social norms, conventions etc.
It can be due to harassment by the employer ( landlord ), odd/protracted hours of work, lack of job
satisfaction, inappropriate and over demanding deadlines, lack of accountability, prevalence of
discrimination, nepotism, harassment by the superiors, lack of appreciation, lack of recognition, bad
working environment such as lack of light, lack of fresh air, lack of promotions, excessive responsibilities
without commensurate powers, corruption, lack of pay revision commensurate with the inflation, price
rise etc. It can also be because of Persecution, forceful conversion, discord amongst different religious
communities, or conflicting sects within the same religion, religious discrimination, religious fanaticism,
politicization of religion, criminalization of religion etc. cause extreme stress in the forms of religious
tension and riots. The stress may originate from marriage; due to harassment by spouse, dowry
problems, problems of working wives and working mothers, (such as those working in the farms, forests,
plantations such as tea, coffee plantations etc.), problems related to lack of issue etc. All the problems of
marriage are multiplied due to lack of support systems, nuclear family, increased wants due to creation of
artificial needs and demands, individualistic thinking, careerism and so on. Marital problems multiply due
to suspicion by jealous husbands, lack of protection to women & girls when working hours are odd,
gender discrimination at working place, etc. The root of stress may be in money; due to increasing prices,
lack of housing, inadequate water supply, inadequate electricity, increasing discrepancy between needs,
wants and artificially created demands and the availability. Emotional stress may be due to exploitation,
cheating, taxation, robbery, business failures etc. The stress may result from environment; due to
changing ecosystems, decreasing greenery, expanding asphalt, basalt, cement, granite and concrete
Student: What about the information explosion? I am sure; it also produces stress!
Teacher: It does! When the ill effects of stress result primarily from our thought process; then we call
them intellectual stressors. However; our thought process is adversely influenced by physical, chemical,
biological, instinctual and emotional stress and vice versa!
Thus when information explosion, leading to confusion, indecisiveness and value crisis is responsible
for stress; then we call it intellectual stressor. In addition; failures, inability to pursue a particular career
etc. become worse due to peer pressure. In fact there is a kind of neurotic obsession about academic
success. This drains the academically “not so good “children of their confidence and makes them feel
lowly. Even if one or more of these factors are not actually present there can be fear, created by media &
advertising of these and it can be far more stressful in urban competitive environment! High tech life
styles, “one up man ship”, act as stressors. Knowledge of diseases increases the fear and apprehension
about the diseases, such as acquired immune deficiency syndrome (AIDS), cancer, diabetes.
Student: What about the stress of freedom fighters?
Teacher: In addition to all the variety of stressors, socially concerned sensitive individuals have to face
extraordinary circumstances, which act as additional stressors; such as; jail, underground stay,
defamation, political harassment. An individual, who dedicates his/her life for a social cause, such as
national freedom, education of women, annihilation of exploitation in various forms, in short problems of
millions; is additionally stressed; along with his/her family! It is essential for us to appreciate this nature
of stress and overcome our hysterical and petulant; carping, nagging and grumbling nature; and enable us
to help these individuals in helping themselves and the society.
Student: So many stressors!
Teacher: That is why we need holistic solutions to manage the stress arising from
Student: But are the stressors always dangerous?
Teacher: No. The environment neither remains unchanged nor does it change
within a given restricted range. So the living beings are equipped to overcome (and
even get benefited from) stressors!
This is why; physical exercise, emotional excitement, intellectual work etc. are
often beneficial when moderate or optimum. Sometimes this beneficial stress is
referred to as “eustress”. EU is used as a prefix, meaning good or well.
When the stressors increase in number, frequency, duration, intensity or
complexity, beyond the capacity of an individual; the internal environment
undergoes greater change (distress) with greater variations and with greater speed!
This results in adverse effects on body cells, with or without clinical signs and
symptoms! This is what is happening today; as we have seen earlier.
Student: Can we call the ill effects of stress; prarabdha?
Teacher: When we seem to understand (although superficially) the causes; we
term it pathophysiology of stress! When we fail to understand the root causes of
the pathophysiology; we term it prarabdha!
Student: Sir! I have reasonably understood the nature of stress and its causes! But
why it is me who is suffering from stress?
Teacher: As I said earlier; stress is ubiquitous. It is darker side of life; and the
brighter side is Total Stress Management! Hence; every one of us, although to a
variable extent, suffers from stress. Some fortunate realize it earlier and some are
destined to realize it later.
Student: But I was never aware of the ghastly nature of this menace! Why is this
Teacher: This is because; as you can appreciate; stress is usually; a slow process.
It acts like slow poisoning and hence goes unnoticed until it acquires serious
dimensions. When noticed; we attribute it to more apparent entities; such as
infection (which itself can result due to stress!). You can understand this if you
appreciate the fact that we “see” the dust particles moving in a dust storm but fail
to notice the wind, which actually moves the dust particles! Moreover; even if we
identify “stress” we don’t have proper understanding of it; just as we don’t
understand democracy, socialism, secularism, god, dharma etc. Besides; we are
habituated to put up a brave face even when we are suffering; because of shyness
and apprehension of being insulted, humiliated, ridiculed, pitied, sympathized or
even exploited. Other more obvious reasons are illiteracy, poverty, lack of time,
lack of information, lack of dialogue, lack of communication, lack of curiosity,
apathy and so on (which are actually due to stress).
Student: In view of the wide range of the mechanisms, causes and the incidence
of stress; the extent of medical ailments and general suffering due to stress are
also enormous! Isn’t it?
Teacher: Yes! It is true! The effects of stress are numerous. But the most important damage
common to all varieties of suffering; is forgetfulness about the true self. This is dehumanization.
This is true dying before physical death!
The stress harms our mind. It produces tension, anxiety, worry, fear, despair, helplessness,
dejection, irritability, restlessness, apathy, suffocation, lack of confidence, listlessness, depression, self
pity, sadness, frustration, unpleasant dreams, disturbances of sleep, suicidal tendencies, abnormal and
excessive fear of cancer, heart disease, diabetes etc. and undesirable habits such as nail biting and habit
of moving a leg or hands unconsciously. It harms our family. Thus, there is lack of; warmth, dialogue,
mutual respect, love, indifference towards one another, petty quarrels, bitterness, violence, impatience,
intolerance, lack of harmony, lack of cleanliness etc. It reduces our performance. Inefficiency,
absenteeism, indifference, irresponsibility and carelessness towards duty, lack of discipline; are the results
of stress. In addition; intelligence is also affected. Thus; forgetfulness, confusion, indecision, difficulty in
problem solving, lack of imagination, difficulty in learning are caused by stress. It deteriorates our social
behavior also. It leads to Pettiness, dishonesty, lawlessness, lack of punctuality, unreliability, deception,
corruption, crime and our matrimonial relations leading to discord, separation, divorce etc.
Stress adversely affects our body! Thus it harms our sexuality, immune system,
eyes and vision, ears & hearing, nose and sense of smell , mouth, heart and blood
vessels, muscles and joints, connective tissues such as tendons, ligaments,
respiratory system, digestive system, genital - Urinary system, reproductive
system, endocrine system, nervous system, blood and so on!
It affects our posture, skin, hair and looks also; distinctly and unmistakably! If you compare a photo of
your childhood & a recent one, then you will appreciate this!
Student: I have noticed this!
Teacher: Hundreds of damaging effects of stress on body, instincts, mind,
thoughts, memory, and perspective; in individual and social life; are described in
many books; including mine. But according to me; like the mechanisms, causes
and incidence of stress; the effects of stress also are infinite and beyond
enumeration and description. They vary in accordance with the individual’s
perceptions, his/her homeostatic machinery (Homeostatic machinery exists right
from the time of fertilization of ovum and sperm. It develops into several organs &
tissues which work in a coordinated manner to keep the internal environment
constant (within normal range) and the nature, intensity, frequency, duration and
number of stressors acting at a time and the complexity of the stressors.
Student: Do you mean to say that the extent of energy, passions, sensitivity,
intelligence and perspective of an individual would determine the extent of stress?
Teacher: Yes! But besides all these; the actual physiological constitution
(genotype and phenotype) also determine the pathophysiology and the effects of
stress. All these, when not understood properly or exactly, are referred to as
Student: What is genotype and phenotype?
Teacher: Genotype is like seed, where the life is not expressed and phenotype is
like a tree, where life is expressed!
Student: I see! I have to handle the social, physiological and pathophysiological
aspects of stress simultaneously! That is what you mean by Total Stress
Management! It includes medical treatment, exercise techniques, yoga etc on the
one hand and the evolution of globally beneficial policies, plans, programs, laws,
rules etc; on the other! Am I right?
Teacher: Yes, most certainly! For that we require; simultaneous internalization
and universalization of NAMASMARAN! Let me reiterate; the most important
point again; stress; especially mismanaged; leads to forgetfulness about the true self.
We can call this NAMAVISMARAN! This is true dying before physical death! It leads to morbid
perspective, policies, programs, plans and their implementation; and laws, rules,
traditions, conventions and so on; at global, national, regional and local levels.
This vitiates the entire atmosphere in family, society, industries, schools, colleges,
hospitals; offices and at local, regional, national and international levels. As a
result we become caricatures of ourselves. We go berserk, trying to seek happiness
and fulfillment in every kind of indulgence! But all our efforts go in vain and we
keep slogging in turbulent emptiness; further forgetting our true selves and
vitiating the atmosphere! We become chaotic ourselves and multiply the chaos
around! We become cynical and spread the same!
Therefore, efforts to relax or manage stress, discipline children, laws to bring about
law and order, propaganda against corruption and scams, hue and cry against
inflation, appeals for charity, spiritual sermons for individual purification and
improvement; or individual gratification, solace, relaxation, entertainment and
other measures have limited and temporary role in an individual or social stress
management! They prove to be grossly inadequate; useless or sometimes even
counterproductive. This is where I became increasingly convinced that in view
of the mechanisms underlying; causes and the effects and incidence of the
stress; NAMASMARAN is that single, simple and easy to practice; democratic
universal solution - the panacea in individual and global blossoming; i.e.
Total Stress Management!
Student: Is there any relevance of the Smrutis here?
Teacher: smrutis means memory or remembrance. These were compiled with the purpose of
guiding all the people in society ranging from a worker to a king. The guidance was aimed at
harmony, integrity as well as prosperity at all levels in society. The practical guidance in smrutis; is
supposed to facilitate emancipation of even a common man who does not understand philosophical
The guidance in smrutis seems to have evolved through enlightened, selfless and prudent discussions
and consensus amongst learned and wise men, it evolved within overall historical, geographic, physical,
environmental, social, and political compulsions; and limitations of scientific and technological
Smrutis aimed at a harmonious, non competitive, orderly and complementary functioning of society.
They advocated that each one should do his or her job (whether considered lower or higher) and nurture
complementarity in the society. There are a number of smrutis named after Vasishtha, Narada, Parashara,
Yajnavalkya Manu etc. Later the smrutis were interpreted in the form of books such as Nirnayasindhu,
Dharmasindhu etc. These books provided solutions to a number of questions and served as guides for
long time. It is interesting to note that these scriptures provided guidance in terms of daily personal
conduct for, a) various age groups, b) males and females from the time of waking up to the time of going
to bed, c) the role in life through different stages of life, throughout the year and different occupations and
positions of responsibility in family and society. There was guidance about jobs, marriage, care during
pregnancy, care of mother and the new born, grooming of children, various ceremonies, festivals,
celebrations, pilgrimages and fairs. Guidance was available in diverse matters such as taming and
domesticating different birds and animals, eating different articles on different occasions, cooking on
different occasions and festivals in different seasons; using of different beds and even sowing on a
While the pilgrimages served to bring people together and purge their minds of petty considerations,
personal grief, pains, frustrations; the compulsory observance of celebrations ensured prevention of
loneliness, cynicism and depression. All this nurtured social cohesiveness.
In the interiors of India the support systems took the form Pravachankar, who
explains the philosophical principles, Kirtankar, who explains philosophical principles but
through more entertaining form of songs, dance, stories, the puranik, who actually reads the puranas,
which are scriptures that describe creation of universe, dynasties, traditions, customs conventions, codes
of conduct and also gems, astrology etc.), and vaidya, who is family physician & surgeon; and others.
In addition, the support systems included the members of the joint families, elderly
relatives, friends and neighbors.
In villages, therefore, one finds a reasonable balance between stressors and support systems.
Student: Would I feel better if I go and stay in some village?
Teacher: Laughs! But overall; the traditional support systems are dwindling and
new support systems are yet to evolve effectively. Thus present state of life is full of drastic, rapidly
intensifying and complicating stressors with increasing frequency (rapid repetition) and number. The
new and individualistic value system drowns us in petty selfishness, superficial glamour and quick
personal prosperity (whichever may be the means to achieve them). This leads to; self aggrandizement
and arrogance or self pity and guilt.
Student: Some say; that if an individual improves (manages stress) then gradually
the family, the society and the whole universe would improve (manage stress).
Hence individual purification is most important. Some others say that if we
improve the system, then automatically the whole universe, mankind, society and
the individual would improve. Hence the purification of the system is most
important. Is this not really a tug of war?
Teacher: The individual can be “purified” if the system improves; because he/she
lives within the system; and in accordance with the system. Conversely; the system
would get “purified”, only if the individuals contributing to it; as well as
controlling it, are “purified”. Moreover; an individual; is inseparable from; soul,
intelligence, feelings, instincts, body, family, society, culture, art, literature,
technology, religion, customs, traditions, conventions, laws; and administrative
rules, and regulations and regulating bodies! In other words; individual and
system are a continuum.
But this concept of continuum is not an absolute truth. Hence there could be
exceptions to this concept; in terms of infinite purification of an individual in spite
of a corrupt system; and purification of a system in spite of corrupt majority!
But; barring such exceptions; the individual blossoming has to be combined with
universal blossoming! It has to be a holistic and all inclusive process that ensures
policies, plans and programs; to optimally fulfill all the physiological needs of all
the age groups, races and religions; through the day, month, season, year and life;
so as to catalyze individual blossoming!
This is Total Stress Management, Total Well Being, Holistic Health,
superliving or Holistic Renaissance. This simultaneous process of individual and
universal blossoming can be realized by orienting to the true self common to all;
just like the instrumentalists and vocalists; who are oriented to the directions of the
master of orchestra! The global unity and harmony would ensue just as harmony,
melody and rhythm; are generated in an orchestra! In absence of this; the
individual emancipation is bound to remain an illusion; and the universal
welfare; an unending mirage!
It is here that I was almost convinced that the traditional, inexpensive; “single,
simple, easy to practice democratic and universal solution of individual and
universal problems; is NAMASMARAN, JAP, JAAP, JIKRA, SUMIRAN,
SIMARAN i.e. remembering the name of God (true self); that involves; steady
victory over pettiness, prejudices and all the subjectivity!
Forgetfulness of our true self is the basic root pathology of stress and hence
nothing else but the process of reaching our true self is the remedy! I reaffirmed
that NAMASMARAN is associated with transcendental perspective, thinking,
feelings and behavior. In other words, it is associated with global vision, policy
making, plans, programs and their implementation. This may be called
SATPRERANA, SADDHARANA, SADVICHAR, SADBHAVANA,
SATPRAVRUTTI, SADVASANA, SATSANKALP AND SATKARMA or
Student: Will you please explain these terms further?
Teacher: Yes! It is interesting as well as essential to understand them!
PRERANA is the inspiration and SATPRERANA is the inspiration that
dawns on us; from the absolute truth i.e. Guru and transforms us from a
subjective individual into an objective being! We develop holistic perspective
of unity of universe in every sense! Our thinking, feelings, instincts and
behavior are transformed and channelized into the service of cosmic will, the
will of Guru! We may not be consciously aware of this process initially, but
richly realize it in the course of time. DHARANA is the understanding and
conviction and SAT implies the universal principle beyond space, time and
consciousness that ultimately controls and sustains the universe and
inhabitants. In simple words, it is NAMA or Guru. SADVICHAR means
thinking that can act as vehicle to reach and merge with ultimate and absolute
truth. SADBHAVANA is the totality of our feelings, which lifts us to reach
and merge with the sublime trans-temporal absolute truth! It is characterized
by true freedom from pettiness and subjectivity and natural concern for the
freedom and emancipation of the whole universe. PRAVRUTTI is convergence
of our inclinations, aptitudes, fixations and SAT is Guru or NAMA!
SATPRAVRUTTI is bent of our mind; an irresistible yet magnificent obsession to
meet Guru, to merge with NAMA and dissolve ourselves in Him. SADVASANA
is evolving array of our passions, into the urge to merge with NAMA! We are
excited in being mobilized towards the absolute truth and to catalyze the
universal process of Self realization! SATSANKALP is synthesis and
crystallization of our perspective, thoughts, feelings and instincts into a
specific well defined activity; directed at individual and universal blossoming
inherent to realization of universal truth! SATKARMA is every different
activity of different people, which helps them and others in reorienting and
reestablishing in absolute truth (traditionally called being stabilized at the
lotus feet of Guru). ACHAR is behavior. Thus the dynamics of our every
transaction in the field of politics, science, philosophy, art, industry,
agriculture, health care etc at personal, family and social level, when
conducive to merging with NAMA, is SADACHAR! In short; every activity
and behavior conducive to universalization and infinitesimal manifestation of
NAMASMARAN in every nook and corner of universe; embodies
SATPRERANA, SADDHARANA, SADVICHAR, SADBHAVANA,
SATPRAVRUTTI, SADVASANA, SATSANKALP, SATKARMA and
Student: Sir, I think I got a broad idea about your concept of stress and Total
Stress Management and NAMASMARAN; at least theoretically. But can you
please explain further; the phenomenon or the activity of NAMASMARAN? I
feel like listening to you; more and more!
Teacher: NAMASMARAN means; remembering the name of God, Guru, great
souls such as prophets and holy objects such as planets and stars. But the essential
aspect is; the name implies absolute truth or true self; and is called NAMA! It
implies Brahma, Paramatma, Ishwar; the supreme omniscient, omnipotent and
omnipresent eternal God.
It may be remembered silently, loudly, along with music, dance, along with
breathing, in group or alone, either with simultaneous counting by rosary (called
SMARANI or JAPAMALA) or without counting. The traditions vary from region
to region and from religion to religion; but the universal principle underlying
NAMASMARAN is to reorient our physiological being with our true self. In fact
while reorienting and true self we reestablish the bond or connection; between our
physiological being; and our true self. This reunification with our true self is the
pinnacle or culmination of individual consciousness! And the individual
consciousness is the culmination of every activity in life. NAMASMARAN; thus
opens the final common pathway of true self, and funnels in it; our every
Thus NAMASMARAN is in fact the YOGA of YOGA in the sense that it is the
culmination of consciousness associated with every possible procedure and
technique in the yoga as well as all the activities in the universe, which it
encompasses as well! Everybody in the world, irrespective of his/her tradition and
the beliefs; including atheists; would eventually, ultimately and naturally reach it;
in the process of liberation.
Just as NAMASMARAN is YOGA of YOGA it is meditation of meditation also!
It is the natural and ultimate climax of every form of meditation.
Student: Can anyone experience this?
Teacher: Of course! Actually these facts have to be realized with persistent
practice of NAMASMARAN and not blindly believed or blindly disbelieved
with casual approach!
In short; NAMASMARAN is a super-bounty of cosmic consciousness for every
individual to realize cosmic consciousness! This is truly a super-bounty because a
person, who experiences it, rises above mercenary, commercial and even
professional and charity planes and manifests super- transactions in his or her life!
This is what is referred to as SUPERLIVING. These are just few observations to
give you; a rough idea about what is NAMASMARAN. NAMASMARAN is
beyond description in words and has to be experienced, most preferably; not
by one or two; but, by billions!
Student: In view of all this; NAMASMARAN seems to make sense in every
moment, every activity, every circumstance and every person in our life! Is it true?
Teacher: Yes! Any person, place, thing, activity and time is good if our
involvement in NAMASMARAN is boosted; in its association! Conversely, all
the persons, places, things, activities and times become galvanized and better if and
when they get associated with NAMASMARAN!
This point is especially important because; during developing stage; the
associations influence us. They are; destructive or constructive; negative or
positive and regressive or progressive. Any policy, plan, program, activity; or
any place such as house, school, college, club, office, hospital, industry, laboratory,
farm, garden; or anything such as vehicles, clothes, perfume, furniture; or any
person such as employer, friend, colleague; is best, if it orients us to NAMA i.e.
true self i.e. Guru; by catalyzing our practice of NAMASMARAN, which is the
absolutely selfless and pure activity! It is the universally and infinitely benevolent
Student: My friends from US and UK laugh and ask, "What authority do you
(Indians) have; to preach NAMASMARAN; when majority of you; are drowned in
abysmal poverty, ignorance, irresponsibility, corruption and so many such evils?"
We are treated as hypocrites. Are we hypocrites?
Teacher: Their argument is broadly; not absolutely; correct! Admit to them that;
"Like the rest of the world (plagued by sectarian, individualistic, petty, exploitative
and such many sick trends); we (Indians) are also ailing, though with somewhat
different infections, signs and symptoms. As a result; most of the people of the
world including Indians; are either opposed to NAMASMARAN and thereby
pamper their petty ego; or practice it in pursuit of personal gains veiled in
semantics of liberation, salvation MOKSHA etc! Most of us therefore fail to
appreciate the pivotal role of NAMASMARAN and thus manifest its impact in
individual and global blossoming! But today; it is high time that we heal ourselves
with this panacea – NAMASMARAN; for individual and universal welfare! With
regard to being hypocrites, we should find out the root of this phenomenon of
But most of us; whether Indians or foreigners; are hypocrites. This is a stage during
our overall development.
Student: What you say; appears to be true!
Teacher: Actually we all are hypocrites; because we do not understand ourselves,
we do not understand others, we do not understand whether others understand
themselves and whether others understand us or not! In fact we do not understand
whether we understand any of this; or not!
Let us understand that actually; it is impossible to “know” ourselves and others’
selves; as the “selves” are beyond “understanding”. They are beyond intellectual
comprehension. They are not a tangible and a concrete entity. Further; we
ourselves, their selves, our perceptions and their perceptions; all are changing.
They are not static or constant!
Thus our hypocrisy is due to our ignorance; and in fact about our ignorance of our
When we are trapped in the dilemma of what we expect from ourselves; and what
we actually feel and do; we get stressed. We try to overcome such stress by
“assuming to be”; “what we think we should be”; rather than accepting what we
are (which is very difficult); or “actually being what we think we should be”
(which is even more difficult)! This is hypocrisy!
Similarly when we get “sheared” between; what we want others to think or believe
us to be; and what we believe; the others think us to be! We get stressed by this
pull! We try to manage such stress by hiding things, which we think people would
not approve; and show, exhibit and advertise things, which we think people would
approve, appreciate and admire! This is also hypocrisy!
Often we condemn others for being hypocrites. But this is merely an outburst of
our internal disturbance; a kind of emotional incontinence. This is caused by
erroneous perception resulting from; our subjectivity and prejudices, through
which the information we get; is filtered. This leads to our inference and
deductions! We allege the others to be hypocrites; because of this reason. In short;
such judgment is due to our own prejudices or actually hypocrisy!
But as and when we are trapped in hypocrisy (i.e. not being ourselves); we are not
at ease. We are uncomfortable! This is a subtle aspect of stress!
Student: In what way; do you think NAMASMARAN can work here?
Teacher: If we practice NAMASMARAN, then over a period of time; we begin to
become aware of our ignorance on one hand; and aware of our link with the
infinite reality; the Self; on the other. We begin to realize that all our instincts,
feelings and thoughts i.e. our knowledge; how much ever perfect it may appear; is
at best a relative truth; miles away from factual reality and even further away
from the absolute truth!
Through NAMASMARAN, we begin to concede to ourselves; that we behave and
communicate only on superficial levels of consciousness. We become aware of the
fact; that we are unaware of our deeper subconscious and unconscious; metabolic,
endocrine, reproductive, autonomic, limbic and central nervous system activities;
and our “true self”, which is even further deep within!
Through NAMASMARAN we begin to experience; that being cut off from the
ambrosia in the depth of our heart; we live in the superficial mediocrity and
indulge in baseless blame games; based on superficial impressions about ourselves
and others! This is how we begin to get freed from our own superficiality and
mediocrity; and get passionately driven towards our own interior!
Gradually we begin to live with greater fidelity to our innate core, the true self i.e.
our Guru; and understand the essence of the aphorism; “NAMA is the only truth”!
This is the first step towards freedom from hypocrisy!
Student: Sir, from what I understand, for you; NAMASMARAN is a core of Total
Stress Management. For you it is a way and a hallmark of global welfare in a
tangible way. But how can you reconcile the views, which treat it as a means of
salvation, liberation, moksha, self realization and/or immortality and it has nothing
to do with politics? How can you reconcile with the views, which maintain; that it
is not only useless; but actually counterproductive to study and ponder over
holistic perspective, policies, plans and programs for universal welfare? How can
you reconcile with the view that the global welfare has nothing to do with
individual spiritual progress and/or self realization?
Teacher: The pinnacle or the culmination of the path of truth or spiritualism; is the
realization of immortality full of bliss. This is called SACCHIDANANDA. This is
self realization. This is NIRVANA or MUKTI or MOKSHA. This is the same as
merging with NAMA. This is the highest pedestal! The whole world is aspiring for
this; knowingly or unknowingly! This is the final destination, the supreme abode!
It is true that this state is beyond everything. It is the center of universe. It is the
controlling center of universal consciousness. It is supreme. It has nothing to do
with politics; because it is the source of enlightened politics; embodying holistic
perspective, policies, plans, programs and their implementation in every field
of life; for individual and universal blossoming! It is the source of the best in
everything; art, science, literature, music and so on!
Obviously descending from this state; to politics is not only useless; but actually
counterproductive. Descending from this state; to study and ponder over holistic
perspective, policies, plans and programs for universal welfare; is useless and
counterproductive. Being the very source of individual and universal blossoming;
it has nothing to do with various protocols; just as the root has nothing to do with
the functions of branches, leaves and flowers!
However; this is an exalted state!
Most of us are oblivious about it. Only some of us have just heard or read about it.
Only few of these some; have mere glimpses of it. Fewer from these few; have
transient experiences of it. Fewer still; from the fewer; have strong convictions
about it. But hardly anyone; almost none has attained it!
Hence; it is erroneous and/or preposterous to hold that spiritual quest has nothing
to do with politics! It is wrong to consider; that it is not only useless; but actually
counterproductive to study and ponder over holistic perspective, policies, plans and
programs for universal welfare; and that; the global welfare has nothing to do with
individual spiritual progress and/or self realization.
Politics (not the partisan politics, or power politics) and the holistic concepts
are essential and inevitable steps; though not necessarily uniform, specific and
explicit; in the process of self realization. They embody SWADHARMA.
In absence of these steps i.e. SWADHARMA; we land up being in fool’s paradise;
even as we continue to get stunted in terms of instincts, emotions, thoughts and
As a result; as we have discussed earlier; we degenerate into hypocrisy or
helplessness, ubiquitously evident inside us; and all around.
We, who claim to be spiritual; if continue to lack holistic perspective, then our
education, health, agriculture, industry, economics and politics; continue to be
sectarian, divisive and exploitative stressors.
Our life thus becomes an unending mirage, full of so called spiritualism; while
all the evils inside and outside; continue to flourish unabated!
Student: Sir, I think this perspective has the potential to reunite atheists, theists or
materialists and spiritualists; and to empower the practitioner of NAMASMARAN,
with SWADHARMA, which is its backbone!
Teacher: Actually this happens inside! The atheism and theism, materialism and
spiritualism and SWADHAMRA and NAMASMARAN unite or actually we
realize their unity inside us! It manifests in the society!
NAMASMARAN enlightens us to be holistic. It enables us to reconnect reason
and emotions, materialism and spiritualism, atheism and theism, individualism and
socialism and all such dualities; and thereby re-enkindle the universe with
realization of unity and harmony. It helps us to victoriously tread the path of
TRUTH and complete the journey of reality through the essential steps and stages.
It thus; ensures the holistic renaissance.
It is true that NAMASMARAN ultimately takes us to the highest pedestal. It is
said so, by many seers, including my guru, Shri Brahmachaitanya Maharaj
But in absence of SATPRERANA, SADVICHAR, SADBHAVANA,
SADICCHHAA, SATPRAVRUTTI, SADVASANA,SATSANKALP,
SATSHAKTI, SATKARMA and SADACHAR (Desires, instincts, emotions,
inspirations, motivations, thoughts, plans, programs, policies, strategies and their
implementation; leading to individual and global blossoming); waiting for
salvation; is like a child expecting Ph D, without studying in a school and college.
We would live far more healthily and happily, if in the process of practicing
NAMASMARAN; we pass (neither avoid, nor fail) through these stages.
Student: What do you mean by SADICCHHAA and SATSHAKTI? I remember
the essence of SADVASANA, SADBHAVANA, SADVICHAR, SATPRERANA,
SATSANKALP, SATKARMA and SADACHAR, but these terms are new!
Teacher: Thanks for asking me to explain! ICCHHAA means a desire and
SADICCHHAA is a single unified desire (formed from the conversion and
convergence of all desires) of realizing truth. SHAKTI is energy. If unqualified it
would be an energy that could be spent in any activity. SATSHAKTI means the
power, the might directed into our mission as inspired by Guru, to merge with Him
through our SWADHARMA.
Student: Sir! I am still not quite clear about SWADHARMA.
Teacher: I will repeat. From absolute truth manifests; SWADHARMA as a
source of SATPRERANA, SADDHARANA, SADVICHAR, SADICCHHAA,
SADBHAVANA, SATPRAVRUTTI, SADVASANA, SATSANKALP and
SATKARMA, which together constitute SADACHAR.
Student: This is wonderful! So what you imply by Total Stress Management is in
essence the same as SWADHARMA! Sir, I am grasping what you say. Now I
would like to ask a little more practical question. Is it true; that in the practice of
NAMASMARAN; the emotions (e.g. devotion = bhakti) are primary and are more
important? Dose the intellect or reason come in the way of devotion, belief, faith
and surrender, which are essential in the spiritual path?
Teacher: It is true; provided the word “emotions” implies pure and spontaneous
emotions! As compared to such innocent emotions; we are more “rational and
thoughtful” about safeguarding our petty personal interests! Hence we are always
inhibited before making any sacrifice or taking any risk for the sake of others! We
lack the spontaneity, honesty and strength! We are weak and mediocre; bereft of
the innate spring of ambrosia. Pure emotions or innocence; by virtue of this
ambrosia; are always superior to petty thinking or reason!
But our pettiness is by virtue of the anatomy and physiology of our brain! Our
higher centers (e.g. cerebral cortex) of brain, which are responsible for our
thoughts, intuitions, ideas etc, are not well integrated. Further; they have poor
control over the lower centers (e.g. limbic system of brain, responsible for our
anger, jealousy, lust etc), which influence our thinking and make it petty, mean and
coward. This is what is implied whenever there is a mention about the dominant
influence of shadripus (Kama, krodh, lobha, moha, mada and matsar). It is due to
this inbuilt weakness within ourselves; that we also fall prey to trivialized and
vulgarized social trends, propaganda and peer pressure; conducive to flaring up of
our basal instincts and emotions!
In short; pettiness of thinking is due to shadripus! Without evolving and/or
sublimating them; inadvertently abandoning intellect or reason; per se; over the
feelings and emotions; is bound to be disastrous! It would make us sectarian,
superstitious, fanatic, blind; intolerant and of course; indiscriminately violent.
So, without bothering about anything of this sort; we should practice
NAMASMARAN! It has the benevolent effect; in terms of accelerating the
growth of our basal, subjective and petty instincts, emotions, thinking and
perspective; into objective and globally benevolent ones.
Student: Coming back to my stress; now I can appreciate the link between the
basic mechanisms, causes, effects and support systems; and the common feature of
all kinds of stress, which is “forgetting our true self”! This dehumanization, true dying
before physical death is due to the ongoing exaggerated entropy, i.e. disorganization!
Actually; now I am feeling better and stronger with this understanding.
Teacher: That is wonderful! The life in us has tendency to merge with the cosmic
consciousness on one hand and a tendency to get trapped in the property of the
matter; on the other! The individual consciousness (we) is intricately associated,
with cosmic consciousness on one hand; and wrapped or rather trapped in the
properties of physical matter; on the other! Physical matter (neurotransmitters,
hormones, enzymes and other molecules and the interactions amongst them) has
the property of entropy; the property of any system to get disorganized (in case
living beings it is the process of atrophy, degeneration, degradation, disruption,
deterioration and destruction). Thus we are actually caught between the upward
(URDHVAGAMI) force that tends to unify us with cosmic consciousness (our true
self); and the downward (ADHOGAMI) force that LOCKS us in the influence of
matter and drags us in the entropy! This suffering is stress! Traditionally it is
Actually; right from the birth; we are accustomed to accept and suffer from the
wants of our body. We are habituated to accept every stimulus arising from inside
and outside our body and get attached to it. This is why we are always engrossed in
the hunger, thirst, habitat, sexual desires and so on; pertaining to our body! This is
not abnormal. But this leads to being increasingly selfish and locked into the
relationships born out of bodily needs! We develop love or hatred about the
relations; according to whether the needs of our body; such as security, food,
shelter, sex are satisfied, or deprived! Thus we get trapped in friendship or enmity,
pains or pleasures; and keep vacillating in them. This is being trapped in the
entropy! This is physiological and normal. But this is also a limitation, and a
common cause underlying the stress!
Student: I think you are hinting at ego; which is also called AHANKAR and is
due to what is called DEHABUDDHI! But I am not clear about these!